My guy and I have been together for 10 years. We have faced every problem that has come our way, and come out stronger for it. We have loved and respected each other, and he is everything that I want in my partner and best friend. We got engaged a year and half ago, and the wedding is in one week. We are both extremely busy people but have always been able to make time for each other, and take care of each other. The problem is 2 weeks ago we got off track and we can't get back on, he keeps imagining a life without me, trying to place failures in his life on me, and has cut me off. I feel like I'm losing my best friend.
At this point, if we need to cancel the wedding we can, even though I don't want to, all that matters is making us work.
But how could someone go from 10 years of healthy, happy communication to complete shut down in such a short period of time, with no major problems leading into it.
Is it just cold feet?
Girl who misses her guy
You're right. He's scared.
Tell him exactly what you just told me. That he's everything you want in a partner. That you're willing to cancel the wedding (though that's not what you want) -- "all that matters is making us work."
Then step back and give him some space.
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