Hi ESB
God this wedding sh*t is stressful
We got engaged in November, did f*ck all as we just enjoyed hanging and being happy, told family in December when we went home for Xmas and now it feels like we're in this headlong rush
What the f*ck changed?
We were going to do a City Hall thing in March but that sh*t apparently needs planning (ok, it is our choice to plan i.e. take some time choosing a dress and restaurant. telling witnesses to get their ass there)
And I haven't got to the whole June thing in London with family. That sh*t is totally taking a back seat. I want to do nice invites and stuff but I already feel like I'm going to be texting people from the plane to f*cking come with 3 days notice.
My boyfriend is awesome but never plans ahead but I feel like I am nagging him to get this sorted. and that is not a cool feeling
Are weddings ever sorted really? Or do you just run out of time?
I wish my job wasn't so stressful too. but it is paying for all this. Oh and we have to sort out my boyfriend's visa the very day after we get married. Ha yes, that's the big f*cking cherry on the cake
What would you make sure was covered and what would you ditch?
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Yikes. Okay, here's what you ABSOLUTELY NEED TO DO:
1. Find a venue + someone to marry you
2. Set a date
3. Invite people, witnesses, whoever
4. Get a marriage license
5. Figure out what to wear
The food, the drinks, the flowers, the fancy invitations, even the rings, are all icing on the cake -- THE CAKE!
Just kidding, you don't need a cake.
But lady, if you don't make a plan and STICK TO IT, this thing is never gonna happen.
Arizona Muse for Louis Vuitton Cruise 2012 by Mark Segal via Fashion Gone Rogue
