Accessorize Me

Dear ESB,

My best friend is getting married to his boyfriend in October, and has asked me to be in the wedding party, to which I said HELL YES!! I'm super stoked. My problem is that I'm having difficulty figuring out what the hell to wear. The restrictions we have been given is that we should wear their wedding colors (black, red, and hot pink). The other important factor is that the wedding is taking place in the woods in Maryland. We're staying at a camp in the woods all weekend. I've almost definitely decided to wear a black jumpsuit (this one, specifically), but I'm having trouble tying the other wedding colors into my outfit.

While I don't think I'll be kicked out of the wedding party for just wearing all black, it would be boring and not in the spirit of their request. First, I tried to look for red shoes (I'm a size 9), but the options that I could find were pretty ugly, or there was no way that I would be able to walk in them in the woods. So, I found a pair of black suede heels that I really like...and then I got stuck. I have no idea how to incorporate one of the other wedding colors into my outfit, let alone both of them.

My style is very simple. Jeans and t-shirts for day-to-day and tailored, nicely cut clothes with very few embellishments, and almost no accessories when I'm dressing up (it sounds really boring the way I described it, but I actually find it really fun, and, more importantly, very me). I'm also a big fan of anything menswear inspired, and I will not wear ruffles of any description. 

I'm still open to shoe suggestions, but I'm mostly looking for help on how to spice this whole thing up with a belt, or jewelry. Bottom line: I need help! Big time! He's my best friend and I want to look awesome at his wedding!

Thanks,
Don't Hate Me Because I Love Jumpsuits

*****

Why does everyone always want to spice things up with a belt??

Has anyone ever SUCCESSFULLY spiced things up with a belt?

YOU DON'T EVEN LIKE ACCESSORIES




If you must go along with his hideous color scheme, you know you have to tie it in with the shoes.

I'm not mad at these chunkers from Zara. (v. woods-worthy)

Gorgeous California Mountain Wedding

This one needs no introduction.

Kelli, take it away:

Our wedding story started a year before the actual event. Brian and I had just been reunited after an 8-month separation (he was in various Air Force trainings and I was working abroad in the Republic of Georgia). Shortly after picking me up from the airport, he proposed on top of our favorite mountain in San Diego, I said “yes” and we hit the road for a trip up the West Coast. Along the way, we stopped at the Sacramento court house and tied the knot. It was perfect.

The Air Force sent us to Omaha, Nebraska. When planning our "real" wedding/reception, we decided because we were so far from home, it was most important to us to get our families and friends together and spend a leisurely weekend in the place we fell in love -- San Diego. 

Because we live so far away from California, I relied a lot on my parents and sister Jessica to scout locations and help with details. I used Etsy, Pinterest and of course, ESB for ideas. I knew I needed Rad + In Love to do the photography after seeing the Badass California Mountain Wedding they shot...and even more so after meeting Jamie at my favorite coffee shop in my old ‘hood in San Diego! It was a no-brainer. 

We chose the Pine Hills Lodge in Julian (in the mountains east of SD) for our venue because of the rustic, low-key setting. I loved that there were cabins on the property so we could have the whole place to ourselves for the weekend and our guests wouldn’t have to worry about driving home after the wedding. That weekend was like living in a little village filled with our favorite people in the world -- complete with nights under the stars and a leisurely Sunday brunch. 

The wedding itself was a family affair with everyone pitching in. My parents picked up buckets of wildflowers at the local farmer’s market and everyone spent that morning making arrangements and wreaths while drinking coffee and chatting on the patio under the trees. 

My dress was Rachel Zoe and it was the perfect combination of Disco-Edwardian I desired. My bridesmaids chose their own dresses -- I just asked them to keep in mind vintage-inspired details like buttons, lace, sleeves, soft colors...etc. I think the results were perfect. The groomsmen were asked to go with a country gentleman-type look -- NAILED IT! Brian pieced together his look from ASOS and Etsy and...looked dayum fine. 

The ceremony was my favorite part of the day. My MIL and mom walked me down the aisle -- and because I was leaning on them I didn’t eat it in my wedges like I feared. 

(I also took all the ESB’ers advice and got my damn dress hemmed - thanks, everyone!) The shoes I ended up going with were on clearance at Free People - and broke on the dance floor... I guess that’s what I get for bucking ESB’s suggestion?

For some reason I thought because we were already married in the courthouse a year before, our second ceremony wouldn’t be as emotionally intense. But, it was just as meaningful as the first ceremony... 

This time my dad officiated, my SIL Mariel and Papa did readings and our favorite songs played. And of course, I got to say my vows again to my perfect man in front of our people. I was overwhelmed.

Our stunning cake was made by my sister’s MIL Linda McLennan -- and was not only beautiful, but she even baked it with our favorite flavors: one tier was red velvet for Brian, and one tier was funfetti for me! It was topped by a 50’s cake topper given to me by my Nana. 

We spent the rest of the evening eating BBQ, toasting and dancing. I think I danced for 3 hours straight. I had hoped the evening would deteriorate into a crazy dance inferno and I got my wish!

After the DJ called it a night, we hung out under the stars just drinking and laughing until the wee hours of the morning. 

Overall, I was extremely touched by the effort everyone put into celebrating our marriage. We had people flying and driving in from all over the country. To see everyone we love from both sides of our family come together for us was truly awesome, especially after not seeing most of them since our move to the Midwest. We will hold onto those memories of our perfect sunny day in the mountains forever -- and especially so during our second Midwest winter. 

♥ ♥ ♥

Photos by Rad + In Love. (Check out more details + gorg portraits from Kelli & Brian's wedding over here!)

Where can I find this Gucci dress for, like, $200?

Dear ESB, 

I'm going to a wedding in the Hudson Valley this fall and I'm trying to figure out what to wear. I like the idea of wearing a long floral dress, mostly because I fell in love with this Gucci Drew Barrymore is wearing in a 2006 Vogue. 

Any suggestions for where a girl can find a feminine long dress that doesn't look like a potato sack? Preferably in red or some other rich color (under $200). 

I can probably be convinced of going in an entirely different direction if you have something in mind.

Thank you!

*****

How bout something like this Rachel Zoe?

(On sale for $259)

(If you're a 0/4)

(Or you could just go with this red jumpsuit)


Photo at top by Mario Testino for Vogue, February 2006