here I go.
Last year I got married to the best man in the world! I love him like crazy and our wedding was amazing. I had 3 bridesmaids, all of them were really happy for us and saved me during some pre-wedding freak-outs. Two of them have boyfriends and the other one was single. It was obvious that sometimes the wedding planning made her a little sad, as she was always the one who dreamed of getting married in big white dress and have a cake with a lot of layers. Still she was really excited for us and helped wherever she could.
A few months after our wedding she met a guy. A few weeks later he moved in with her. A few weeks later they got engaged!
I've met him and he seems like a really nice guy and they look really happy together.
But... I'm scared that she's marrying a good enough man because she really wants to get married. The wedding isn't until the fall of next year.
My husband and I met in high school and got married after 12 years of dating and 7 years of living together. I understand that if you meet each other later in life things can go a lot faster. But how fast is too fast?
Am I overreacting? My husband certainly thinks so. All of her friends like the guy. Her parents like him. Nobody worries.
I am overreacting. Right?
All the best!
You are suffering from Post-Nuptial Know-It-All Syndrome.
Take a deep breath.
Drink a glass of water.
Go for a long walk or to a fucking yoga class.
It will pass eventually.