Thank you, Meg, for writing this post. Now I don't have to.
I do have one thing to add:
I don't approve of soliciting strangers for wedding funds, but I'm also fed up with the implication that you're not ready for marriage until you've saved enough cash to pay for the wedding.
I wanted $400 shoes and I (gasp) put them on a credit card. We also charged the rentals. Anybody have a problem with that? Because I'm done feeling guilty about it.
*Don't shove your wedding silly. Just stop focusing on the budgetbudgetbudget. It makes me depressed.
(Photos by my fave, Olivia Bee)