Thursday, January 31, 2013
sorry, but you're not invited to the *ceremony*
I'm the MOV for a friend's wedding and I have a question with respect to the ceremony. The bride wants to have her ceremony on a balcony at the hall where the reception is being held (ceremony at 5pm, reception at 6pm). The balcony is small and won't hold all the guests so she wants to only invite close friends and family to the ceremony and plans to do this by word of mouth.
I think that people will be confused and maybe even offended if they don't get invited to the ceremony. I told her if she wants to have a smaller, more intimate ceremony to do it on another day prior to the reception.
Is it okay to have a smaller ceremony the same day as the reception and just not invite all the guests?
yeah, no. that's rude.
you can have a big wedding or you can have a small wedding, but you can't have BOTH. not at the same fucking location.
p.s. wtf does MOV stand for? maid of valor? matron of videography??
kati nescher in miu miu, shot by patrick demarchelier for vogue uk (february 2013)