Hey ESB, I've seen you facilitate some killer support and advice for real life shit in the past, so here I am writing to you. I...

Hi, ESB.  I'm writing with a quandary that's been rolling around in my head for a while. I'm in a great relationship. He is...

Hey ESB, I have a non wedding related question for you and your wise minions. I got married to my husband 3 months ago, after being w...

So My best friend of 25 years got married in June, I was her MOH, I tried so hard to please! I feel like I went above and beyond, her w...

Dear ESB,
 My fiance and I have been together about five years, engaged for five months. We just bought a house together about a month ...

Dear ESB, I never really thought I would ever be writing to you, but at this moment I feel so damn confused and don’t want my fri...

Hey ESB, I'm writing to you super anonymously because this whole topic makes me nervous. Well, more embarrassed than nervous. I...

Hey ESB Soo, let me preface with the - I love your blog and never thought I'd be writing to you, but here am I. My man and I have...

I didn't want to get out of bed this morning. And H got out of bed CRANKY. And I was ready to be all, fuck Valentine's day. But...

Dear ESB, I'm a longtime reader and lurker. How do I tell my partner of six years that I've changed my mind about marriage? ...

Dear ESB, WTF should I do with my last name when I get married? I've read some great posts over at APW about name changing which g...

Dear ESB, I wrote to you a few months ago. You diagnosed me with "Post-Nuptial Know-It-All Syndrome" and I was cured that ...

Dear ESB,  How soon is too soon to make plans for the holidays, and what's the secret to making both families happy? This will my h...

Hi, hoping your straight to the point advice can help me out on this one: We've been married for 2 years, which makes this holiday s...

Dear ESB, How do you know you have what it takes to make a marriage? My guy and I have been together for a few years, live together,...

dearest esb, I just wanted first of all to say thank you, and even though you are an evil club of mean, hipster brides, I have thought...

Two months ago, I was in the middle of a ridiculous snit about dirty dishes when I landed on this essay in the New York Times. Jenny ...

Dear ESB, I am having a bit of a quandry. Actually, it is a pretty huge issue. I am in love with and have been dating my BF for nearly ei...

Dear ESB, I feel nuts writing to you, but I am desperately in need of some real perspective, and I think you are awesome. I have bee...

Dear ESB- So my question deals with our wedding but also the future in general.  I am not one of those girls who has always dreamed about...