tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post6169671347621348516..comments2024-03-24T23:51:25.945-07:00Comments on east side bride: My wedding day was kind of miserableesbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00215882729011442570noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-84132561076527704942012-06-26T07:12:28.721-07:002012-06-26T07:12:28.721-07:00yeah I wouldn't be so quick to judge either, i...yeah I wouldn't be so quick to judge either, it's often easier to do some pics before the ceremony and ALL the family pics after the ceremony when everyone is in the same place.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-37577595972278392692012-06-26T07:11:21.609-07:002012-06-26T07:11:21.609-07:00yes, completelyyes, completelyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-22011037821319841682012-06-25T21:21:45.612-07:002012-06-25T21:21:45.612-07:00Menopause anyone?Menopause anyone?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-5936829104158766542012-06-25T15:02:30.760-07:002012-06-25T15:02:30.760-07:00love.love.Hillary Schusterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03874750431495369292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-44119182396627368952012-06-25T14:50:55.712-07:002012-06-25T14:50:55.712-07:00not only that, but there are so many factors that ...not only that, but there are so many factors that go into timing of pictures. we did wedding party pictures before family pictures so that family didn't have to get to the venue quite so early -- this could have been meant to be very considerate. and regardless, this mom wanted the wedding to be about her, because it inherently would not be, there is nothing the daughter could have done to control her mother's tantrums.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-14850329957461994092012-06-25T14:12:56.021-07:002012-06-25T14:12:56.021-07:00"And it seems like in some ways she already h..."And it seems like in some ways she already had, since the daughter’s priority was to take photos with her friends before her family."<br /><br />Wow, judgy. I don't think this girl did anything wrong here.Shirinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-42395169019236559822012-06-25T13:15:22.531-07:002012-06-25T13:15:22.531-07:00That has to be hard to deal with a parent who can’...That has to be hard to deal with a parent who can’t understand the bride’s OWN stress on the day of her wedding. The mother obviously felt left out, not just in terms of the wedding, but scared she was losing her daughter to her new husband and friends. And it seems like in some ways she already had, since the daughter’s priority was to take photos with her friends before her family. It seems like the daughter did everything she could to console her mother, but maybe the relationship was already fragile. It’s unfortunate that such a special day was so miserable, and I hope it hasn’t ruined their relationship.Stephanie Nikohttp://www.stephanienikolopoulos.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-83447125158447845652012-06-25T12:59:51.128-07:002012-06-25T12:59:51.128-07:00This. Oh man, there would be Serious Discussions a...This. Oh man, there would be Serious Discussions about this.Rosnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-41189524372224117182012-06-25T12:44:53.117-07:002012-06-25T12:44:53.117-07:00my husband probably feels your pain. i- as he says...my husband probably feels your pain. i- as he says- was "calling dinosaurs" 1 hour into the reception... the next day my mom was cleaning the bathroom & yelled something about "ASS HAIRS!" on the back of the toilet. i guess i had ripped my fake eyelashes off & left them where i lay.<br /><br />oh boyH.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16448982070532862844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-1413676233913535852012-06-25T11:28:52.351-07:002012-06-25T11:28:52.351-07:00Yes! If I wind up (not likely, but possible) deali...Yes! If I wind up (not likely, but possible) dealing with family drama all night, fh had BETTER be helping out!jwhittzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10612103569990080513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-10581730016690603682012-06-25T10:32:31.414-07:002012-06-25T10:32:31.414-07:00So glad you pointed this out. Had me the same tho...So glad you pointed this out. Had me the same thought.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-64872230370950050072012-06-25T10:01:19.572-07:002012-06-25T10:01:19.572-07:00Reading this, it irks me that your groom opted to ...Reading this, it irks me that your groom opted to drink himself into oblivion and leave you to herd him around / clean up? Would've been nice if he'd had your back.Michellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-56966220866163240352012-06-25T09:51:26.135-07:002012-06-25T09:51:26.135-07:00Oof, how awful! I think some moms get an idea that...Oof, how awful! I think some moms get an idea that the day is all about them, the mother of the bride? I don't know. My mom picked a fight with my dad's girlfriend at my sister's wedding and made her cry, which was fun. Meanwhile, I was married in Oct and she's currently not speaking to me right now for some reason so I'm wondering if I'm being punished for some offense I don't know about.Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09764007513463436372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-8694941853209359752012-06-25T09:30:34.946-07:002012-06-25T09:30:34.946-07:00I hear ya. Moms can do weird shit when it comes to...I hear ya. Moms can do weird shit when it comes to weddings. My mother angry-sobbed the whole day before my sister's wedding. Luckily for me, she angry-sobbed when I told her I was engaged and more or less was alright after.hennypennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07573990830078639587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-31724310366079030642012-06-25T09:10:55.844-07:002012-06-25T09:10:55.844-07:00Woo. Remind me to have bridesmaids.Woo. Remind me to have bridesmaids.Volarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01954957618094710763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-6028276574220395902012-06-25T09:04:48.191-07:002012-06-25T09:04:48.191-07:00Moral of the story: Drink more. Your husband had t...Moral of the story: Drink more. Your husband had the right idea. ;)Toniahttp://www.ittybittyimpact.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-33174995122123505362012-06-25T08:45:19.129-07:002012-06-25T08:45:19.129-07:00Oof this sounds awful. Just absolutely no excuse f...Oof this sounds awful. Just absolutely no excuse for that kind of behavoiur. BUT, I'm always hearing stories about crazy/bitchy bridesmaids, so I'm really glad your ladies stepped up and gave you a good time!Emily Takes Photoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13811559996670448379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-42740477182370364462012-06-25T08:40:14.065-07:002012-06-25T08:40:14.065-07:00I feel your pain on this one. I watched my mother ...I feel your pain on this one. I watched my mother behave the same way years ago at my brother's college graduation - her breakdown was because my brother got his diploma right after the ceremony (as instructed) rather than seeking out my mother to thank her. <br /><br />The results were the same - hiding, hysterical crying, refusal to listen to logic, absolutely inconsolable. <br /><br />I've been hoping that she won't pull something similar at my wedding in a few weeks, but the likelihood is reasonably high. <br /><br />I WILL match my fiancee drink for drink, though. Come hell or high water.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-21055531710981425752012-06-25T08:18:01.658-07:002012-06-25T08:18:01.658-07:00weddings make mothers crazy--ass-bitches. Mine has...weddings make mothers crazy--ass-bitches. Mine hasn't forgiven me for a whole heap of shit I did and didn't do around my wedding. Which was news to me (4years later) as she seemed to have a pretty great time on the day. I telling you, CRAZY. <br /><br />I'm sorry your wedding day was miserable. Thank fuck for your amazing bridesmaids, I'm glad they were there for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-69464156669656861022012-06-25T08:08:37.909-07:002012-06-25T08:08:37.909-07:00Wow, what a brat! You'd think the MOB could ma...Wow, what a brat! You'd think the MOB could manage to put her feelings aside and put her daughter first for one day. On the bright side, this makes me EXTREMELY thankful for my mother, who I know would never pull a stunt like this.Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11198635511796593911noreply@blogger.com