tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post1412446361184524609..comments2024-03-24T23:51:25.945-07:00Comments on east side bride: Dear ESB: I was a total bitchesbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00215882729011442570noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-40756992154980127792009-12-15T10:05:05.183-08:002009-12-15T10:05:05.183-08:00I think everyone has a bit of bridal remorse for s...I think everyone has a bit of bridal remorse for some reason or another. Mine happens to be that it's a year and a half later and I still haven't gotten crackalackin' on the albums for my more than gracious parents.... {ok I started a business, but c'mon}. want to avoid the continued guilt? I'd say get these puppies off your after-wedding to-do list asap.<br />and remember- we've allll been there!<br /><br />BTW- Great post ESB!Jacqueline Weppnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02627015009961131647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-3083843168551479302009-12-15T01:46:07.025-08:002009-12-15T01:46:07.025-08:00hmmm maybe thats a good new business idea:
wedding...hmmm maybe thats a good new business idea:<br />wedding planning yoga classes.<br /><br />to calm down all the stressed out brides to be and help their families.<br /><br />I think the idea with the picture for the mum, is great.<br />Ans after that, Brigitta, you should really stop worrying about it.<br />You are back to your beautiful best !<br /><br />(uhm Liv always went total retarded bitch when it came to our moving in together planning(( We are in LDR and now I will move to London.))Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06527247451021351222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-50340509703622720072009-12-15T01:13:12.481-08:002009-12-15T01:13:12.481-08:00I don't think I was a bitch about our wedding ...I don't think I was a bitch about our wedding (I dunno, my loved ones may beg to differ) but I've been a bitch about plenty of other things before and the only way to stop feeling like shit about it is to apologise. It doesn't matter how long it's been (I apologised to my oldest friend last year for squirting her in the face with spray paint when we were 14. It was kind of unintentional but I still felt like a shit about it. It turned out she couldn't remember it ever happening. That helps with the guilt too. My point is, I would still be feeling horrible about it if I hadn't apologised for it, even is it was 9 years later) <br /><br />So, apologise, move on and I'm sure that your friends and family will be quite happy. Oh and even if they brush off your apology then you will still feel better. Promise.carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09351483253361159121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-46928352457303576112009-12-15T01:00:35.811-08:002009-12-15T01:00:35.811-08:00thanks for this. it helps.
It just so happens tha...thanks for this. it helps.<br /><br />It just so happens that my Christmas present to my Mum is a photo of us on the day! ha. tops.<br /><br />As for the apologies, I've tried, but most people get dismissive as if it wasn't a big deal.<br /><br />I guess all i can say is 'oh well at least I tried'<br /><br />thanks.BrigittaRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12432832543158028300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-4834900796555593612009-12-14T19:05:54.595-08:002009-12-14T19:05:54.595-08:00I dunno. She has a really good haircut.I dunno. She has a really good haircut.east side bridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06206689296805893265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-87439868068427596092009-12-14T18:22:29.151-08:002009-12-14T18:22:29.151-08:00definitely a hippiedefinitely a hippieH.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16448982070532862844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-56061916932853785552009-12-14T17:45:30.682-08:002009-12-14T17:45:30.682-08:00that lady sounds like a hippie.that lady sounds like a hippie.laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03429404210444847213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-49980484577794774802009-12-14T14:08:52.983-08:002009-12-14T14:08:52.983-08:00Yeah, I agree with The Maiden Metallurgist in addi...Yeah, I agree with The Maiden Metallurgist in addition to ESB. I love the the floating down the river of Zen! But I also think a sincere apology to whomever you feel deserves one is in order as well. (Although perhaps this has already been done?) I'm sure it would be appreciated, even though whoever it is has doubtless already chalked it up to wedding craziness.FKnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-17304279335884961022009-12-14T13:57:34.670-08:002009-12-14T13:57:34.670-08:00I think it's fair to float it down the river o...I think it's fair to float it down the river of zen only after you offer an honest apology. You don't have carte blanche to trate people poorly, even ones who love you, even on your wedding day.The Maiden Metallurgisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05897256429726150185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-89070108403161771992009-12-14T13:33:36.251-08:002009-12-14T13:33:36.251-08:00i still maintain that all of my bitch moments were...i still maintain that all of my bitch moments were justified. and yet i regret them still.<br /><br /><br />we're already at the point of laughing at the memory of those moments, though. they're hilarious in retrospect.lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00379596904318935981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-46582516587407721752009-12-14T13:25:39.680-08:002009-12-14T13:25:39.680-08:00I gave my parents, grandparents, and wedding party...I gave my parents, grandparents, and wedding party photo albums of pics from the day (small paper, 10 photo albums for the party and more trad., bigger albums for the 'rents). they all tell me that they still enjoy looing through them often. of course, i never put together my own album and now that i have kids i probably won't until they go away to college :)Lindsey M Nelsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17771674385093968848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-71097467878157725292009-12-14T11:52:32.027-08:002009-12-14T11:52:32.027-08:00i had a similar bar experience, but with straws. ...i had a similar bar experience, but with straws. straws are for lemonade and iced tea only... GAWD-UH it's not rocket science!<br />oh, and the fights. i'm almost embarrassed to admit this, but the biggest fight we have ever been in EVER, was about having the cake table inside or out. nasty, name-calling, screaming match. cake, ok? cake.<br />i've got to say, the best part about being married is NOT having a wedding to plan.Celiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05922091596290930281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-9063503496205586742009-12-14T10:46:32.051-08:002009-12-14T10:46:32.051-08:00i am still trying to think of a thank you gift for...i am still trying to think of a thank you gift for my parents... <br /><br />is there really anything that expresses enough gratitude for putting up with 11 months of wedding planning nonsense? and we managed to do it without any major fiascos! i think my parent's should be sainted. <br /><br />but a photo would be a very good place to start.iheartkiwihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16826856044690823004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6468279200135971946.post-15978059055079373672009-12-14T10:21:26.285-08:002009-12-14T10:21:26.285-08:00Note to self: I should probs give MY mom a wedding...Note to self: I should probs give MY mom a wedding photo. It has been a year and a half.east side bridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06206689296805893265noreply@blogger.com